Quiz
Should you reach out to your ex?
Seven quick questions about timing, how it ended, and what you’re really hoping for. It can’t tell you how they feel — nothing can — but it can help you see where you stand.
Question 1 of 7
How long ago did it end?
How this quiz works
The questions look at the things that most often decide whether reaching out goes well: how much time has passed, why the relationship ended, whether either of you is with someone new, and whether you could handle any answer — including silence. If they’ve asked you not to contact them, the answer is always to respect that.
It’s a way to think it through, not a verdict. For a fuller take, read Should I text my ex? An honest way to decide.